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The other name for sex fantasies is erotic dreams which are a series of erotic thoughts or imageries or even wishful speculations which arouse sexual desire or enhance sexual feelings. They may be prolonged stories or appear in short spurts. The reason for the sexual dreams to exist may range from individual sexual motivation like need for arousal or reaching an orgasm. They could also be an individual’s idea of passing time before falling asleep. Sexual dreams can be positive or negative depending on individual thoughts and perceptions. It is not always necessary that an individual who has frequent sexual dreams is keen to enact them in real life – as some may think of these thoughts as improbable, unacceptable, illicit or even physically impossible.

While sexual fantasies are considered to be perfectly normal in an individual, it is not always that every one will have them. An essential part of human nature, these fantasies may have their roots in our unconscious mind. They are varied by nature but demographic studies have shown that there is a particular pattern in their occurrences and subsequent theories have also been developed on sexual fantasies. For instance, a woman is more likely to fantasize about having sex with a known man – depicting the assurance a woman needs for a protective relationship. However, this type of theory does not hold much water when it comes to sexual dreams of married women. Sexual fantasies depend and vary according to gender, sexual experiences, societal background, cultural backdrop, bias and society taboos. Be that as it may, the common types of sexual dreams are reliving any sexually exciting encounter, daydreaming about having sex with an unknown or known partner, having sex in a romantic environment, oral sex, etc.

There are some common concerns about sexual dreams which include: these are signs of betrayal, of a wandering mind, craving for sex in an illicit relationship, need to be unfaithful, infidelity, etc. The truth of the matter is that surveys show that people who regularly fantasizes about sex, have a very healthy, trusting and happy relationship in real life. You could equate sexual fantasies with the concept of the mind wanting to explore areas which the body has to desire to experience. Since sexual dreams originate in the brain, such imagery can actually help in arousal and can help in heightening the pleasure of sex. It may even add a lot of spice to a long-standing relationship if both the partners discuss their sexual dreams as part of foreplay. Stories about sexual fantasies and escapades may arouse an otherwise docile sex partner in bed. In fact, during psychosexual therapy sessions sexual dreams are purposely used to eradicate negative thoughts about sex. During a sexual intercourse, if ever you find that your mind is wandering away towards negative thoughts or consequences, you could immediately resort to sexual dreams to put you back on track to enjoy your private moments better.

It is common for people to create sexual fantasies for increasing desire and sexual pleasure. Erotic videos, books, pictures, sounds and music can arouse desire for many and help you fantasize better and faster. All you need to is to find out what turns you and your partner on. There are enough toys, gadgets and films available in the market which will help you relax and sink into the erotic world of sexual dreams.

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