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Good sexBilly Joel, American Pianist, Singer and Song Writer once said “There's nothing better than good sex. But bad sex? A peanut butter and jelly sandwich is better than bad sex.” Nothing can be truer when it comes to leading a happy and content life. Yet not many of us know much about how to have great sex which cuts out the boredom and frustration and enables us to have more satisfying sex lives. But then, what is great sex anyway? Is it subjective, or is it a sexual intercourse with someone who you truly love and care for, or is it a sexual encounter which is safe, and leaves you without having to worry about unwanted pregnancy or worrisome about contracting a dangerous STD or sexually transmitted disease? Does good sex mean having a one-night stand where you can have sex without the necessary commitment? Or is great sex about having sexual intercourse with someone other than your usual partner? Opinions about the definition of good sex may be as varied as people themselves and their priorities and attitude towards sex in general. Be that as it may, it might seem strange, but great sex is behind feeling content in life and can make many relationships last despite differences in other areas. Simple additions, alterations and adjustments can actually help us to have good sex and break any monotony which might have set in, with the passage of time. For instance, take the example of position, time and location, when it comes to having sex. A little change in these three simple concepts can help us have good sex, despite having intercourse with the same partner. Let us discuss these three important aspects which play a critical role in having good sex that is satisfying and memorable. Sexual positions play an important role in sexual enjoyment. Even changing positions as often as you wish can make the sensation of a normal sexual intercourse different as any alteration of sexual position, from man on top to woman on top may take you and your partner to newer heights of passion and sexual frenzy. While man on top or the ‘missionary position’ is one of the most frequently practiced sexual positions round the world, it is also the position where chances of conception are highest. A variation of this position is for the woman to sit on the edge of a low bed or a chair where the man has to kneel on the floor for proper thrusting. For men who are heavily built, it can also mean reducing the load on his partner. Another variation of the same position of man on top is when the woman lies on her belly and the man can enter her from behind, for many women this is more ecstatic as it can stimulate her G-spot. One of the ways you can enjoy good sex, is when you alter the timing for the sexual act. Never make any routine of the time when both of you have sex. This is the start of boredom in sex as everything becomes so predictable and the entire pleasure is lost because there is no element of surprise left. In stead, try sex during breakfast, if night time is the usual time, you are used to having sex with your partner. Or, you could even run back home during lunchtime to have a ‘quickie’ – there is nothing like surprise timing for having good sex. The next element which turns great sex bad is the location. The bed, being the most common venue for all sexual intercourse by most people, this itself may ruin most of the fun and pleasure which you enjoy in the sexual act. Try changing the location – the kitchen table, the living room carpet, standing along the wall of any of the rooms are some of the ideas of change in location which can cut out the ennui from a sexual act and turn it into great sex. Sex ArticlesWe Have more Information For You about Sex and MoreSex FAQ - Good Sex - Sexual Problems - Sexual Health Sex and Intimacy - Girls and Sex - Men and Sex - Teens and Sex Sex Dating - Sex Therapy - Sexually Transmitted Diseases Privacy Policy - User Agreement |
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